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Screwed if you do, screwed if you don't!, Your mate and best friend dont get along? |
Aug 2 2009, 03:51 PM
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çłõćķωõŗķąήğêł ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Members Posts: 135 Joined: 11-June 09 From: Michigan
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Ok, I have a mindbender for you. Let's just say as a hypothetical scenario that you have been dating,or have been married to someone for a time, and at the same time have had a best friend the same amount of time, and all of a sudden they no longer get along. I know its impossible to make two people who don't like each other to get along, I mean you can't force someone to like someone they don't like, but what would you do? How would you handle this situation, without being unscathed? On one hand is your lover, and on the other hand is a cool arse mate that has your back through thick and thin and has been for some time. Are you not screwed either way?
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Aug 3 2009, 02:33 AM
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Personal Assistant ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Banned Posts: 144 Joined: 5-January 09 From: Hanford, California
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Ok, I have a mindbender for you. Let's just say as a hypothetical scenario that you have been dating,or have been married to someone for a time, and at the same time have had a best friend the same amount of time, and all of a sudden they no longer get along. I know its impossible to make two people who don't like each other to get along, I mean you can't force someone to like someone they don't like, but what would you do? How would you handle this situation, without being unscathed? On one hand is your lover, and on the other hand is a cool arse mate that has your back through thick and thin and has been for some time. Are you not screwed either way? No. It's there beef not yours. unless someone is just plain wrong and abusiVe then of course since there is intereaction that requires your input for the sake of acknowlaging what is right and wrong to justufy any responding to a ultimatum to choose ending a relationship with either party. in that case you have to be Principled for the sake of your own integrity, and make your decision based on that. that's justice and good for everyone and will usually , because of your example serve to teach everyone to be honest and take responsibility for amy wrongs or misunderstanding. JCLOEW
This post has been edited by JCLOEW: Aug 3 2009, 02:39 AM |
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